THE FIRST STEP TO CHANGING YOUR LIFE
Your beliefs are the invisible driving force behind the mechanics of your life and the filter through which you interpret reality.
They shape your personality traits, behavioural patterns, decision making, relationship building and so much more.
Constructed from habitual thinking patterns you learnt as a child, they are the lens through which you experience the world around you.
Do any of the following sound familiar?👇🏻
“Money doesn’t grow on Trees, Don’t be such a baby, You don’t deserve it, You never get it right, I’m so disappointed in you, Are you stupid? You should be ashamed of yourself!”
Your parents were not intentionally harming you; they were simply repeating behavioural patterns ingrained in their memory.
They were rooted in their own unresolved childhood traumas and this triggered automated, unconscious reactions.
Suppression of Core Emotions
As a child, these reactions may have caused you to perceive your innate core emotions – such as sadness, anger, fear, excitement or disgust, as:
- Something to be ashamed of.
- Or, perhaps, inherently wrong.
As an automatic defence mechanism, you most probably learnt to transform those emotions into Shame, Guilt or Anxiety.
Instead of embracing these emotions, you may have been conditioned to hide them or see them as unacceptable.
Defense Mechanisms: Core Emotions Turn Into Shame
To protect yourself, you likely developed automatic defense mechanisms to navigate this emotional suppression. These mechanisms often transformed core emotions into:
- Shame (“I must be bad to feel this way”).
- Guilt (“I shouldn’t have these feelings”).
- Anxiety (“Expressing myself will lead to trouble”).
For example, the belief,
“I can’t say what I really think or show how I really feel because I will get shouted at,”
became ingrained in your psyche.
The Emergence of People Pleasing
Over time, this survival strategy solidified into an automated behavioural pattern.
Years later, it may have manifested as people-pleasing tendencies, driven by a deep-seated need to avoid conflict, gain approval, or feel safe.
This means that the very Construction of most of our Thoughts are Built on a Belief that Constitutes LACK.
Becoming aware of how devastating this has been and actively learning to let go of those concepts, is absolutely crucial to healing your inner child and shattering the Limited Thinking;
Here's the science behind why you find it so difficult to alter your own Belief System...
The Reality of Your Mind
- You have ~60’000 thoughts every day.
- 80% of them work against you.
- 95% are on autopilot, repeating the same patterns.
Your Subconscious mind holds an unlimited capacity and Permanently stores everything that ever happens to you.
Acting as a ‘Mental map,’ it cannot discern between what is good or bad or what is right or wrong for You and your circumstances, Its function is only to Store and Retrieve Data and…
Here's the important part...
The Role of the Subconscious is to Ensure that YOU Respond:
Exactly the way you are Programmed.
Meaning = Your subconscious mind makes sure that everything you say and do Fits a Pattern Consistent with Your Beliefs, [otherwise known as Your “Master Program.”]
If you believe that “YOU’RE NEVER GOING TO DO MUCH WITH YOUR LIFE,” that belief will systematically sabotage any attempt for you to change it and instead, have you munching on popcorn, hooked on a Netflix series.
KNOW THIS…
WHAT YOU THINK, YOU BECOME – WHAT YOU FEEL, YOU ATTRACT – WHAT YOU IMAGINE – YOU CREATE
Until you become aware of how the subconscious is running your life, the pattern will repeat itself in an endless cycle, like unquestioned commands, until you make the decision to systematically break it…..
The only way out is to Rewrite the Code...
My membership program is designed to completely transform your life by helping you rewrite the code of your subconscious mind.
It’s time to finally liberate yourself from the restraints that have been quietly sabotaging your potential.
You’ve been living on autopilot for far too long but now, you will have the power to take the wheel.
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